Saturday, September 16, 2006

Ha-HAH! We have been visited by a narcissist.

I was going to delete this comment, when I suddenly thought the better of it. Here's my response. Here's the whole post in case you care to comment.

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4 Comments:

At 9:48 PM, Blogger Psyche said...

Hi Kathy....one suggestion if the "N" responds again....ignore him....baiting people is what they do best....do let him suck you into his sociopathy....."N: hate it when you ignore them....and they will just move on....or if he continues to try to bait you....respond to us....not him....treat him as the object HE is....he will stop...because deep inside , "N" are cowards....and cant handle being treated as they treat others....

 
At 9:50 PM, Blogger Psyche said...

Oops....typo....I meant to say...do NOT let him suck you into his pathology....

 
At 10:01 AM, Blogger Kathy K said...

This is one of those moments when a you have to pinch yourself and wonder if everything you just said went into some black hole.

Look at everything I've just said in the last few posts. Especially in "Docile Victimhood or Fighting Back."

And now you're acting as though I said none of it, saying I should just act like this didn't happen?

You're characterizing defense as the "getting sucked into his sociopathy"?

That's calling defense what it ain't, And that's vilifying defense.

Why should I want to control an N I don't even know? Why should I want to make him stop? Why should I want to treat an N the way they treat others?

I am not a manipulator. All i care about is my own conduct.

This is no message board. It's my turf. I tolerate a troll just long enough to answer. Of course it all bounces off their head. So what? For, then he or she is out of here, no matter how many new identities they create to sockpuppet us.

New identity with one profile view...already deleted, psyche?

Thanks for the notification of victory.

Bye.

 
At 10:22 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

i left my narcissist for the 3rd time and now again i contine to look for validation becaue i am starting to wonder is it me? he is startingt ocall, wants to see me. he agreed to take 50 percent of the fault but not 51. problem is and you all know this is true, with a narcissist it is their fault. it isn't logical and it comes from nowhere. the attacks, the ager and the rage. my guy isn;t violnet physically , he is controlling and quiet. he very rarely yelss but his words can cut you like a knife. hw ants to see me this week and wants to talk about why this is happening. he wants to know why we aren;t together and he wants want is fair. 50 % of the rsposibility. but the truth is - he is 100% resposible for this, his other 3 failed marragies, his falied realtiosiips with his 2 children who donot speak to him and his two brothers. can someone beat some sense n my head, i am begging for some profound words that i can hear.

 

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