The Unheard Side of the Story on NPD
The comments are sad and revealing. I really think therapists should read some of them. See how they square with what the Ns are saying.
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Kathy is a tennis pro and freelance editor/writer who writes instructional tennis articles for various print and electronic publications. A graduate of the University of Wisconsin with a major in biology and a minor in English, she also graduated second in her class at the United States Tennis Academy and taught high school science for 16 years.
About the malignant narcissism of Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD). Explains why narcissists behave the way they do - viewing others as prey to treat like dirt or tear down in order to prop up their delusions of superiority. Share your insights and everyday examples of narcissistic behavior.
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The comments are sad and revealing. I really think therapists should read some of them. See how they square with what the Ns are saying.
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This website and blog share my observations and understanding of malignant narcissism. Being a writer, I feel that I should use my ability to describe and explain things in a way that is clear and meaningful to the average person. So, here you find many examples of narcissistic behaviors and learn why your normal behavior yields anti- results from people with Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD), why they are predators compelled to abuse and slander vulnerable prey, and why they react so backwardly to things. My aim is to contribute what I can to the formal understanding of NPD and to help those victimized by a narcissist understand what is going on. I am no expert. These are just the observations and reasoning of one who has had long experience with narcissists and knows others with such experience. So, I can't give you counseling or personal advice. I have no credentials. This publication isn't intended as professional advice of any sort.
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One author who has written very compellingly about emotional abuse as a result of "pretending" is Patricia Evans in her book on Controlling People. She writes that these people "pretend" as a way to control their environment, and will use whatever techniques they have at their disposal to coerce their target to play along, including emotional abuse.
And because emotional abuse is so hurtful, it is also very effective at getting immediate results, which unfortunately reinforces that method of controlling others in the mind of the abuser.
By the way, if I recall correctly, Patricia Evans does not have training in the mental health field. But I think her descriptions of emotional abuse really add to what is out there.
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