The Guilt of Narcissist Sympathizers
By making excuses for them, narcissist sympathisers leave narcissists no incentive to change. In other words, narcissist sympathisers enable narcissists. They actually serve as a temptation to narcissists.
By making it seem evil for the victim to FEEL anything or to do anything but bend over for the abuse, narcissist sympathisers re-victimize the victim, help the narcissist succeed with his or her travesty, and create the perfect world for the wicked to prosper.
Shame on them. May these angel-faces get the reputation they deserve.
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The guilt of the narcissist sympathisers is put neatly in the following quote by Elie Wiesel
“I swore never to be silent whenever and wherever human beings endure suffering and humiliation. We must take sides. Neutrality helps the oppressor, never the victim. Silence encourages the tormentor, never the tormented. Sometimes we must interfere.”
Holocaust survivor Elie Wiesel.
Society in general will always prefer to be 'neutral' than rather being seen to 'rock the boat'. This is the guilt that is on the shoulders of the narcissist sympathiser. It is certainly the guilt of the family of my ex-NPD partner, who in amongst all the chaos and destruction he caused me and our little girl, all they ever said was, 'there's good and bad on both sides, I won't take sides, I prefer to stay neutral.'
With attitudes like that, the oppressors, the abusers, the narcissists continue to get away with....literally, murder.
I haven't visited or posted for a while as I've been busy arranging my escape.
My emails were all being monitored so I had to clandestine go about making escape arrangements and I'm happy to report that December 13th, 2007, me and my little girl were successful in escaping our oppressor and abuser.
It's like a dead weight has lifted from my shoulders and I'm a much happier person. I feel free.
Congratulations!
Dear Lynn-I'd have you for tea, if I could. I'd take you under my roof and care for you. I'd take your little girl in my arms and rock her.
Staying neutral is taking a side. Doing nothing, is enabling.
According to the scriptures that I have, Pontius Pilot wished to stay "neutral" as the religious terroists beat, shamed, nailed and placed an innocent man on a tree.
History has it, that the king of man, later washed his hands constantly, trying to rid himself of accountability. And to think! a thief who also hung on a tree that day enjoyed paradise and reward.
Perhaps the thief was a thief because he had been oppressed by the one who hung the One who gave anyone who believed eternal life.
hmmmm...
interesting concept. Doing nothing has a way of backfiring.
Oh, and I meant to say:
Last night I was talking to a trustworthy friend. She said, "Honey,put me as a reference for your job, because so and so can't stand you, do you know why?" and I said,
"Yes, it is because she has believed gossip."
My friend said, "Yes. But also, she is seethingly jealous of you.
She is, 1) insecure (not happy with her life and what is in the mirror); 2) a jealous person (hates those who provoke her insecurities)...let's see...YOU have a full head of hair, she is nearly bald...YOU look good after 10 babies she is BIG & fat after 2 kids...AND IT IS ALL YOUR FAULT!)
3) She goes to church with your ex-husband...and sympathizes with his crying."
The thing is, "she" is even MORE guilty than my ex. Because people like her, cause his abuse to go on and on and on and on and on....if it wasn't for people like HER, he wouldn't get very far, now would he?
DING DING DING WARNING WARNING...
Oh, and I meant to say:
Last night I was talking to a trustworthy friend. She said, "Honey,put me as a reference for your job, because so and so can't stand you, do you know why?" and I said,
"Yes, it is because she has believed gossip."
My friend said, "Yes. But also, she is seethingly jealous of you.
She is, 1) insecure (not happy with her life and what is in the mirror); 2) a jealous person (hates those who provoke her insecurities)...let's see...YOU have a full head of hair, she is nearly bald...YOU look good after 10 babies she is BIG & fat after 2 kids...AND IT IS ALL YOUR FAULT!)
3) She goes to church with your ex-husband...and sympathizes with his crying."
The thing is, "she" is even MORE guilty than my ex. Because people like her, cause his abuse to go on and on and on and on and on....if it wasn't for people like HER, he wouldn't get very far, now would he?
DING DING DING WARNING WARNING...
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