Tuesday, January 08, 2008

What does facing the facts about narcissists teach us?

What does facing the facts about narcissists teach us?

It teaches us to quit trying, quit enabling, quit blaming ourselves, quit making excuses for them. They act out of malice that envies everything in others, even self respect.

It also teaches us not to let the holier-than-thous load a guilt trip on us for abandonning the nacissist or holding him or her accountable for damage done. It's just sanctimony. Which is phony.

Narcissist sympathizers are a huge part of the problem. As Sam Vaknin says, they are his "proxies." Blow them off. Misplaced love or sympathy or loyalty is vice, not a virtue. And it's also stupid.

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At 9:45 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Judging by the number and the content of the comments on the subject of sympathizers, I think that you have hit a very raw nerve with the recent posts about this. I sometimes feel that only I can see what the N has done and is doing, but others, even if they don't know about N.P.D. can still see a lie when it hits them in the face, and can recognise evil deeds. At least on this site people understand and it is good to know that you are not alone.


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